Waltzing

Waltzing is fundamentally like any other musical dance: it’s a way of listening to the music by using your whole body. Listen to this description of a waltz. It’s my thinking, but Richard Powers started me thinking this way.

A good waltz tune has three parts to it: (1) a flirt, (2) a swell, and (3) a resolution.

The flirt is often a single instrumental introduction to the tune, as if the musicians are saying, “Here’s what we’re offering for you to dance to.”

The Swell, is the gradual introduction of more instrumentation, lifting the tune’s complexity up with each new instrumental interpretation (which are often show-cased individually with the other instruments playing back-up). During this part, because the dancers have learned the tune in the Flirt and gained some understand of their partner’s skills, they will be aroused into all sorts of dance interpretations to the music.

The resolution is offered in two ways. Lively tunes often end suddenly, as if the driver just slammed on the brakes. It usually makes the dancers laugh. Softer tunes have an easing off period, not as long as the flirt, but it softens, slows down, and ends peacefully. Both endings, though, are telegraphed. Before the sudden ending in the best lively tunes, the musicians make you think it’s ending, then they kick it one more time before they stop. The softer tunes’ endings imply that the tune, like the dancers, are tiring out, satiated and peaceful.

In Praise of Dance by Saint Augustine

I praise the dance, for it frees people from the heaviness of matter
and binds the isolated to community.
I praise the dance, which demands everything:
health and a clear spirit and a buoyant soul.
Dance is a transformation of space, of time, of people
who are in constant danger of becoming all brain, will or feeling.
Dancing demands a whole person,
one who is firmly anchored in the center of one’s life.
Dancing demands a free person,
one who vibrates with the equipoise of all one’s powers.
I praise the dance.
O, people, learn to dance,
or else the angels in heaven will not know what to do with you.

Tribute to Joan Kelly: Teacher, Dancer, Artist

We’ve lost a giant among us, and she didn’t know that we knew it.

I met Joan while she was an art teacher in the Memphis City Schools. My wife, the school’s librarian, who has an eye for good educators, spoke highly of Joan. Though I only knew Joan for about a dozen years, I really saw her talents at contra dances and in her developing art.

Joan Kelly”s stature was evident when she would light up a dance floor with her grace and giggle. She loved to dance, and anyone who learned to dance well quickly learned that she was one of the best. Plus she had passed along that grace, quick response, and light-footed touch to her daughter, Erin. When those two were nearby on the dance floor, it was special—for Erin was so special to Joan, and vice versa.

We saw Joan grow up as a caller. She applied that teaching experience and ploughed through those three familiar stages of calling: joyful playfulness, irritation with those who keep messing up the normal flow of the dance, then the acceptance of a seasoned caller coupled with clarity and authority. When Joan took her turn as our caller, we could expect the best dances of the evening.

We saw it in her participation in the choir her brother leads at Balmoral Presbyterian Church where she found community that embraced her wonderful contributions.

We saw it in her progress as a wood-turner. Those early simple, beautiful bowls had evolved into complex, magnetic pieces of art. All those years of artistic expression were finding a medium she was mastering.

Alas, the very medium that had become home for her blossoming expression betrayed her. Working with a difficult piece of cedar, it exploded from the lathe and killed her in the prime of her creative life. The consolation is that she died doing what she loved.

The tragedy is that she left us wondering what more she would have done and created, and, though she felt loved by many, she somehow felt underappreciated and unrecognized. We now know that the gratefulness for her gifts that are so talked about as she passes on, were just on the verge of the recognition and honor she deserved. She lived a wonderful life.

Her legacy might be contained in a query: why not work on the most complex and difficult pieces so that our creativity is a deeper expression of life, love, and God? That’s what she was doing at the point of her death, exclaiming to Ernest minutes before the accident that it was the most difficult wood she’d worked with.

It took two weeks for that chunk to fully take her life, during which time we circled together in a dance of love and sadness that some felt was being called by Joan—she saved the last dance for all of her friends and family.

Joan Kelly, our loved one, died in her blossoming years at 59. We miss her.

A Child’s Review

A Child’s Review

Distributing my first CD (“Howjado? Songs and Stories for the Very Young”) has been a fascinating experience. First, I’ve been surprised at how different it is than hearing comments on my books. With books most people say what they think. With music and stories, most people tell me what they feel or experience. Almost every day someone tells me they’ve been enjoying a particular song or story. Just an hour ago a mother, walking alongside her young son, exclaimed, “He was just singing your song ‘Wimoweh’!”

Last week I spoke with a child whose father tells me has been listening to my cd “a lot.” She was grinning ear to ear as we played with a couple of those tunes, particularly adding verses to “Pick It Up.” One child, each time she sees me says, “Awongalama”—the name of the tree in one of the stories on the cd. I love it!

The other day I called my wife and meekly said, “Jim (my boss) just yelled at me.” She replied, “Are you okay?” I said, “He called me, and as soon as I answered he yelled, ‘This cd you gave me is great!’” He’s bought extras to give to his grandchildren.

For about five years I virtually gave up doing music and stories with children. I wanted to do more complicated adult music. Then at a song circle I sang “Little Red Caboose” and the “Car, Car Song.” The group—all grown-ups—lit up. It reminded me that I may just be a musician for children and the child-within. I just am not going to be a great guitarist or dulcimer player, but I sure can have fun with songs and stories for children. Interesting that that revelation happened in a song circle, for now I’m returning full circle. I started out with children’s music, with a children’s television show (“The Rickety Bridge”), with school and library concerts of songs and storytelling, and I’ve come back to it.